Friday, June 30, 2017

The 7 Worst Types of People

When I called this The Worst Types of People, I wasn’t talking about racists or homophobes or people who litter (because they do make the list), but I’m talking about the smaller things that have the power to throw off your mojo without even realize it. With that being said, join me on today’s journey of horrible people in this world. This is why we can’t have nice things!


1. Whoever decided it was okay to put the calorie count on the front of food. I’ll go to buy a muffin or something, and instead of reveling in the moment of delish chocolate chips or fresh blueberries, I’m visually assaulted by a large number that I’d only ever want to see on a paycheck. I mean, come ON. Let me live a little.
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2. It might not happen outside of NJ or NY at all, but the traffic weaver is by far the most hated breed of drivers. Why yes, I did want to be aggressively plowed down by your truck on my way to the beach because you refuse to drive in a straight line. Sure, no go ahead of me, the space is only half the size of your car- I’m sure you’ll fit just fine.

3. The waiter/waitress when they inform you that they are out of your favorite food. Sure, I know it’s not actually your fault and I won’t be rude to you about it, but just know that I’m internally mad at you.

4. The people who never seem to eat. You’re out, you’re hungry, and somehow nobody else in your group of friends seems to be. It’s been like 5 hours since your last meal but nobody seems to notice. Weirdos.

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A prime example of traffic weaving: NYC
5. People who don’t say please or thank you. I’m pretty sure that I spent my childhood watching a manners video by Barney. I’ll let you borrow it.


6. “It’s Thanksgiving you say? Great, then you have extra time to complete this online exam. See you in class Monday.” -Every satanic professor

7. “Sorry I never responded, I never got your text/didn’t get it until just now.”  Oh, is that so? Conveniently, on a time sensitive question and/or request? Then who did get my text then? Hm? HM?!

I’m sorry to break it to you, but if you fall into one of these: you’re the worst, I hate you- and as a five year old would say, “You’re not coming to my birthday party!’ Have a good summer and don't be the worst.

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Saturday, June 17, 2017

The 4 Worst Interview Questions

**Disclaimer: These are not drawn from my personal experiences or from anyone I have met, but the novelty of the questions themselves.

Inspired by the seemingly endless cycle of job searching and grueling interrogations- I mean interviews- here are what I have deemed the four worst interview questions:

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
Um, I don’t know- probably eating quesadillas on my couch and cuddling two hypo-allergenic golden retriever puppies? Studies have proven that our little ‘five year projection plan’ is in no way, shape, or form an accurate depiction of what our life will be. If the point of this is to see goals and drive, fine. Then my goal is to not bat an eye when I’m told guac is extra for my quesadilla. I have big dreams, huge actually, but let’s start small and work our way up, shall we?

What is your dream job?
See above about quesadillas ^  Maybe throw in a lot of writing and a dog that aimlessly roams around our office and I’m happy.



What’s your biggest weakness?
Sometimes I get too scared to finish episodes of Dexter, so I have to sleep with my lights on.

While I appreciate the novelty of the question, I hardly think someone will intentionally tell you the worst parts of themselves if they’re striving to work for you. There are so many ways to ask this question but not in these words AND get the answer they actually want out of you. I deeply respect an interviewer who can get a little sneaky with their line of questioning...all ninja like- hwa hwauuuu

Can I see your references?
Of course you can. Yeah, my past three bosses will actually trash talk me, which is why I picked them...said nobody ever. I personally don’t have any former employers with negative things to say about me, but can you imagine? Oh yeah, I did work for Bob once and he hated me. Naturally I thought he was perfect for you to call.

Obviously I JOKE PEOPLE and you should always be respectful to others whether it is the interviewer, the CEO, or the janitor- but these questions themselves make me internally chuckle. Good luck on the never ending job hunt and may all of your dog related dreams come true.

Saturday, May 6, 2017

The Truth About Yoga...


Somehow I found myself twisted into a little Megan pretzel as I tried to untangle my limbs.


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You see, I decided to try my hand at yoga- the one thing I swore to myself I would never do, and let me tell you, it’s really stupidly hard. Not only do you have to stay in the physical pose (as your legs wobble and knees buckle underneath you) but you have to stay mentally engaged. Ugh. You’re really asking too much of me.


But my university offered a free class, and my friend had asked me to go. She really is what kept me accountable for actually showing up and not screaming mid class. Alright, as I start off every session, “LET’S GET BENDY!”


Tip No. 1:


Do not eat a large quantity of nachos before class. You can and will throw up all over your matt. I think it was a blessing in disguise that my class got canceled that day and that never happened…
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Tip No. 2:


Actually do it a few times. Seriously, the first few times are brutal, and the only inner dialogue that is happening is, “Why?! Why did I do this? I’m never doing this again. I bet this is what dying feels like, that’s why they’re all so existential about it, because we’re dying…”


Tip No. 3:


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Found this somewhere on Pinterest
Doing some practice on my own helped me be more confident in class. The thought of literally falling on your face is pretty terrifying, so getting to figure out your own body could help you find both your external and internal balance (lol see what I did there?)


Tip No. 4:


Finally figuring out how to do the poses correctly (ands pronounce their names) is super exciting. It’s a weird sense of accomplishment that I did not expectt to have. So try to at least get to the point where you’ll at least know what the jargon means before you swear it off.


Tip No. 5:


Expect to be sweaty. No, like, yoga is so hard and I sweat more during my classes than I did at any of my soccer games or track meets. You end up using muscles you didn’t even know you had, so naturally it’ll be uncomfortable.


You’ll end up surprising yourself within a few weeks of practice. Not only have I gotten more flexible and eased some of the chronic pain in my body, but notice that I look better and feel stronger. Try something new today readers, especially something that is “not your thing”. 
Namaste people, LET’S GET BENDY!

Saturday, April 22, 2017

5 Hacks to Creativity

Up until this point, I’ve been told that people are either born with creativity or they’re not, but that is WRONG. People are born with the natural inclination to be creative, and in some of us, that continues to thrive and grow just as we do. In others however, it’s squeezed out like a juicer into a different model of what already existed. No fun. Some of us are just more creative than others, but that doesn’t mean we can’t develop ourselves.


So, now that we’ve settled that a naturally non-creative person does not exist, let us proceed.
Here are just a couple of my thoughts on how to engage and strengthen your sense of creativity on a daily basis. Enjoy!


1.  Change your lense
Everyone has a viewpoint, yes? This is formed by experiences and interactions with those around you. Think of your viewpoint as a pair of colored lenses. If you put on someone else’s glasses, unlike real life when you’d stagger around the room screaming “Wow! You’re so blind, how do you see?”, you’d be privy to new perspectives.

How does one acquire said lenses, you ask? Socialize yourself to new perspectives, like reading a book about something you’ve never thought of, talking to people that are different than you, exploring the planet you live on, or actually hearing out a perspective you’re not exactly enthusiastic about.


2. Do random things
I loooove doing random things. Last month I almost signed up for helicopter lessons, just because I thought it’d be cool. I’ve travelled Europe, I got my bartending certification, took a job at a nonprofit, tried my hand at cooking (quite terribly), learned other languages, tried random sports, learned a few instruments, tried painting, writing and drawing, and took a dance class. You name it, there’s a chance I’ve done it or am planning on doing it. Try something new to get the creative juices flowing.
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3. Fail
If you’re not failing, it’s because you’re not doing enough. The odds of you hitting bullseye while you’re playing darts is...uhhhh, slim and none. You usually have to throw 5, 10, 20 times before you get what you want. Same principle applies to other efforts. C’est la vie.



4. Clean
Cleaning your living space exponentially helps clear out what is blocking the space for freedom in your brain. Not only will your work/living space smell better (lol) but you’ll feel more open and relaxed. It’s science people.


5. Music
Sometimes I’ll just scroll through Spotify and pick music at random. Sometimes it’s a freaky, screamy song, and others make me feel like I’m tripping on acid. Love or hate, it’s eliciting an emotion out of you, so work with that. (Disclaimer: I am not currently on nor have I ever done acid).

Now you are armed with a few tools to break out of your mental schemas and privy yourself to a world of bountiful possibilities. May your days be blessed with fertility of thought and a few blunders to laugh about on your journey there.

Wednesday, April 5, 2017

The Garfield Effect

This morning I had to get my blood taken. If you didn’t just cringe and internally vomit at the thought of that then we can’t be friends because I WAS A MESS. I was panting so loud that they could hear me in the room over and shaking and whimpering. I am seriously a child when it comes to bloodwork #NoShame. Plus the doctor seemed super detached and cold which didn’t really help my mental breakdown.
So after this morning of dread and then awful trauma of having a needle stuck in my arm while I tried to fight the black spots growing in my eyes so I wouldn’t faint, I was mentally and emotionally exhausted.

I went home to get ready for work -feeling pretty much horrible- when I pulled off my sweatshirt to change and went to examine my battle wound. There, right on my arm was a Garfield band aid.

Something about it just made me burst out laughing. It made everything suddenly so funny. This serious, stoic man put a Garfield band aid on a fully grown adult, and waited to let me discover it on my own.

I guess my point is that life can suck a lot of the time, but I think we should all strive to be the Garfield band aid to someone else’s day- The Garfield Effect

Wednesday, March 22, 2017

A Peek Around the World

I told you the heartbreaking secrets of a study abroad student in my last article "4 Things Nobody Tells You About Studying Abroad", but I didn’t include the touching stories of people finding themselves or their badass adventures. What is it really like? Living abroad?


Just for you, my readers, I interviewed 6 INCREDIBLE people that are from (and currently) all over the world to get the inside scoop of living in other countries, and everything that goes along with it. Check out the stories and photography of travelers Kim, Yok, Tori, Ben, Ally and Kristen.


KIM
Kim is from New Jersey and spent a year, let me say that again for the people in the back, a YEAR in Graz, Austria. She loves to practice her German and travel when time allows. 
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She’s currently there now and worked against the time difference to bring her story to us!
“One of the things I'll never forget is being in Berlin on New Year's Eve and having to dodge fireworks because people were shooting them off in the middle of the street!”
Hahah (that sounds like my worst nightmare)

Me:  Traveling is a life altering experience! In what ways have you changed?       
“I've become a lot more outgoing and flexible. I've definitely become overall more calm and self-confident. And of course, I've developed an addiction to traveling!”

You can give Kim’s blog a read to follow her adventures for the remainder of the year at kim-talks.blogspot.com.



YOK
Yok is from Thailand and studied abroad in the U.K., but she has traveled literally all over the world!
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Yok is an incredible photographer and has a wickedly good sense of humor.
Yok explained her biggest problems for us, which I both found relevant and amusing:


Weirdly, I struggled to use things up before the expiration dates. I could not manage the groceries. I never knew that bread would expire within a couple of days and they always turned greenish and I had to throw more than half a loaf away. Or I struggle to cook a "normal" [sized] meal because I have to fit everything that is about to expire in the menu.”


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Which led us to find the best book in the whole library at Uni…”Microwave Cuisine”. Truly an art of the lazy gal’s guide to cooking for one.
Me: “What is something you did that you would not have done had you not been studying abroad?
“Fall in love…”

Ugh my HEART.
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TORI
Tori is from the sunny sunny Florida state and I’m very very jealous. She studied abroad in Bournemouth, U.K. and decided to share her experiences with me. Tori had been to England multiple times before, and plans to move there this summer for work.
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Me: “What is your favorite memory of studying abroad?”
“It wasn't so much of a specific memory, more like a time. My Easter break in the U.K. was probably the happiest time of my life. I got to go to Ireland, and it was the time I felt I truly belonged in that country.

When asked what her experience was like returning home, she was so bashful. Really shy. Beat around the bush.
“It was like being ripped from my real life and thrown back into this hot, mundane prison where nothing had changed. It sounds dramatic, but it was honestly the hardest thing I've ever had to do. It felt like I was trapped.”


As you can see, she was thrilled to be home.


The likelihood of her moving to the U.K. for permanent residence? Um…..astronomically high.



BEN
Ben is from Pennsylvania and was able to spend the semester abroad in Prague, Czech Republic. During his time abroad, he explored 18 different cities, the majority of which he tackled by himself. A true adventurer!


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When asked what his greatest struggle was, Ben talked about the infamous adjustment period:
“At first, I found it difficult to adapt to the new culture and way of life in Prague, but over time I was able to adjust.”


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New culture, new time zone, we feel your pain Ben! As it so happens, Ben also has a gorgeous eye for photography- take a look!

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Here are some more photos from his excursions.




ALLY
Ally is from my adopted homeland as I like to call it, the U.K. Ally studied at my university in New Jersey, a semester before I met her at her university in the U.K. 
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How funny is that? Ally is a communications major like me and one of her favorite things to do was roam around New York City. The food, the people, the music, the sights, what’s not to love?


Ally opened up to us, explaining her hardest time away from home.


"While on semester abroad my dad was diagnosed with cancer and it was very challenging to hear that news and to realise that I will not be physically there to support him during his treatment."


Ally still managed to make the best of her great adventure though. Something she did that I personally thought was very cool, is when she interviewed various people in NYC for her blog, including the homeless population. 

Very nice Ally!





KRISTEN
You are most likely to catch Kristen sporting Mickey Mouse ears at Disney World than to be anywhere else. Kristen comes from NJ, but flees to Florida whenever the opportunity arises. She took on a bigger adventure last spring semester and I got to know her when she lived across the hall from me in uni in the U.K. Small world.
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Kristen traded in her iconic mouse ears for an epic adventure of 8 countries in 5 months. One of her favorite memories being jumping off a cliff in Switzerland to paraglide.

*It’s a bird! It’s a plane! Oh wait, it’s a Kristen!*

Kristen says that studying abroad helped her put the world into a whole new perspective.
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At the end of it all, life is what you make of it, and study abroad students are usually the ones that tend to learn that the fastest. Thank you so much to everyone I spoke with and helped make this project possible. I hope that each one of you gets to experiences your dreams, like these students did theirs and try new foods, snap beautiful pictures, and take risks. Remember, everyone is alive, but not everyone lives...make today the day you lived.